I'm trying to keep alive a tradition that I did last year, where I take a picture of something around my church that I grew up in. Last year was a bunny rabbit and Jesus. And this, year, it's not QUITE Christmas, (but then again, neither was the bunny rabbit last year).
So behold! A picture in one of the nursery school classrooms, showing us Adam, Eve, and a very curious and perhaps slightly sinister snake:
Merry Christmas, everybody!
:):):)
The adventures of a complicated Christian who doesn't settle for easy answers or cheap alcohol.
Monday, December 24, 2012
Tuesday, December 18, 2012
Do you need a dog metaphor for your sermon?
I’ve been dogsitting since December 5th,
sometimes for two sets of dogs at once.
Every morning, at 6:30am, no matter what house I wake up in, I have to
go run Pablo and Pepe. Even this
morning, when it didn’t LOOK like it was going to rain when we started, and
then it totally did.
So my life has been dogs dogs dogs 24/7, right up until I
leave to go home for the holidays.
And if you’ve spent any time at all in any church of
larger-ish size, you will invariably run across a pastor who uses a dog story
as a metaphor.
Why? Well,
because most people are dog people, and therefore most everyone can relate to
dog stories, and starting a sermon off with on is a way to keep people’s
attention for at least five minutes.
They are such obvious metaphors (dog is you, owner is God)
that I bet I can rattle a bunch of them off the top of my head. Let’s see….
(and it’s best if you say the following in your best Old
Time Folksy Pastor Voice)
“So you know you can let your dog go running off if you
want. Sure you can! Let your dog go off leash through the
woods, let him explore, let him do his own thing. But don’t be surprised if he comes back all muddy and his
coat full of burrs, and maybe he’s even sprayed by a skunk. Because that’s what happens when you go
roaming off the path that God has set out in front of ya – you come back a
dag-gum mess is what happens!”
“That’s the thing about dogs and leashes. Dogs don’t understand why they gotta be
on a leash. But it’s because they
don’t know everything like you know everything. Like GOD knows everything. Alls you seein’ is the ground in front of you, and you’re
all hell bent to scamper down that road just as fast as you can and then God
yanks your leash back and you’re all HEY!
WHAT’D I DO!? You don’t get
it. And if you’d simply relax and
let GOD take control, life would go a lot easier without you choking yourself
all the time.” (I know that picture of Bella isn't really about her on a leash, but it was too cute not to include.)
“Dogs gotta eat.
But they can’t get to the dog food sack themselves. Who do they depend on? YOU. YOU’re the one who’s gotta feed them, who’s gotta give them
water, who’s gotta take them out on walks. YOU’re the one who’s gotta give ‘em a bath when they get
stinky. They can’t do none of this
without you. That’s why they TRUST
you. Because you’re their
MASTER. So why can’t we as people
trust our heavenly father the same way?
He’s gonna take care of us!
He’s gonna feed us, gonna take us out for some exercise. Because WE ARE HIS, we are.”
And on and on and on. :)
I'm sure I could keep going, but you guys get the point, right? We're all dogs, God is dog spelled backwards, he's our master, we need to obey him more.
You don't hear a lot of cat metaphors in sermons, do you? know why? Because cats are EVIL! Minions of the enemy!! Yarrrrrrrrrrrr!
Kidding kidding. But seriously, pay attention to the next time a pastor busts out a cat metaphor. And then come tell me about it. :)
Tuesday, December 11, 2012
Suspended Calendar
I’m dogsitting Albert and Abbot’s new puppy, and here’s
where I should name him something old school and delightful, but because he’s a
puppy (they got him from a shelter and they think he’s about 8 to 10 months),
and because he’s got puppy energy out the wazoo, and we’re not just talking
cute puppy I’m Adorable As I Gently Bumble My Way Over To You On Adorable Puppy
Paws, but more of I’m A Hellion And I’m Way Smarter Than Anyone Gives Me Credit
For, and I’m Gonna Tear Around The House At One Million Miles An Hour!!!, I’m
going to name him Scampers. Or
Butthead.
My first gig with Scampers Butthead was over
Thanksgiving. Just a few weeks
ago, but already feels like a million miles away. A whole month has passed since Dad died, and sometimes it
feels like everything since that day has happened on a suspended calendar in an
alternate universe, where time has taken on the consistency of taffy, pulling
and stretching and expanding and drooping and pulling some more.
People send me emails and texts and phone calls and they
always want to know how I’m doing.
And when they ask the question, I feel like I need to break down in
tears in order to justify their concern in asking me. They’re searching for signs of distress, because people
would know how to deal with that – here’s a person who’s grieving the loss
of her father. Poor dear.
People don’t know how to deal with someone who’s grieving a
loss without any familiar signs of grief.
I’m not even sure if what I’m doing could be considered grieving. It feels and smells like regular living
to me.
But I’ve certainly got enough on my plate, what with dealing
with Scampers Butthead, and also juggling a second gig with Pepe and Pablo at
the Shabby Shack five minutes away.
So wake up, feed and get Scampers Butthead situated for the day, then
drive back to the Shabby Shack to run Pepe and Pablo, feed them breakfast and
get them set up for the day. Go to
work, come home, feed Scampers Butthead, go play with Pepe and Pablo, go back
to Scampers Butthead house and go to bed.
Lather, Rinse Repeat. It’s
not easy to do these dueling gigs, but I couldn’t really say no to either of
him, though I could’ve played the grief card. But it seems wrong when I don’t feel sad, bad or morose.
It’s life. Life
happened. A parent dying is not
unique to the history of the world, everyone deals with it eventually.
And the more time I log on this suspended calendar, the more
I realize just how merciful God was working behind the scenes. We had a year to get used to the idea
of Dad’s dying. We got to go home
and see him before he went under.
Yes, it was quicker than we were originally led to believe, but
ultimately, it was for the best, and God knows I’ve heard plenty of horror
stories of other peoples’ parents dying where they didn’t have such gentle
outcomes.
But Scampers Butthead consistently jockeying for attention
is forcing me to cut this blog entry a little bit shorter. It’s okay. I’m not sure we were getting anywhere near profound anyway,
ha ha h.
Tuesday, December 04, 2012
Paisley Bunny's National Debut
The weeks have been okay. I remember when Tricia was
going through the loss of her husband while jugging being a parent to their
toddler, and how she told me once, over lunch, “Grief waits.”
And so I was going through these days with that image of
Grief, sitting at a table with a big knife and fork waiting for me to sit down
and dine, except I would be the main course.
But that hasn't happened yet.
Then there was a person at Thanksgiving, who told me just
because I haven't been prostrate with grief doesn't mean I won't be. This
person, who lost their parent two months ago, shook their head knowingly in a
way I found distasteful. People are different, and their grief is
different. I'm probably not going to grieve in the same way you do, or
how my sister does, or my Mom, because my parent's death wasn't the same as
yours, I'm not the same as you, and it's kinda arrogant for you to act like you
think you know how my journey from here will be. If I want to know your
opinion on your journey, I'll ask. But don't condescendingly shake your
head at me and say I've got some bumps in the road ahead of me. We are all different.
Dad’s death wasn’t unexpected, it wasn’t a gut punch, the
scenario of We Can Maybe Save Him! was never an option, so maybe that helps
buffer the impact. I don’t have children and don't have plans or urges to
have children, so the lingering sadness of They Won’t Know Their Grandfather
isn’t there.
I’m still able to get out of bed. I’m still able to go
to work. I’m still able to dogsit, and that’s good, because I’ve got
dueling gigs next week, blargh. I’m eyeing Christmas coming up, and I
know that’ll be weird, if not hard. But I’m also getting the sense that
I’m not going to know exactly what it’s like until I get there, so I’m able to
compartmentalize it and put it away in the metaphor dresser, ‘cause there’s
certainly plenty of things to do in the meantime, like Christmas shopping, like
rewriting a pilot, like la la la.
Dad was a Christian, so I know he’s in heaven, able to see
all of this happening. And maybe somebody else would be desperately
looking for a sign that he’s up there, seeing all of this. And maybe that
sign would come in the form of a flower, a tree, sun breaking through the
clouds, or something else equally Hallmarky.
But I’m not looking for those signs. I’m taking
comfort in the knowledge that he’s up there, watching all of this, and he’s
okay. Not in pain anymore, not weak or scary thin anymore. He's
healthy and happy and he’s okay up there, I’m okay down here. And
the days continue on, filled with Facebook messages, condolence cards, flowers,
and one giant Godiva basket from my monthly prayer group (they know me so
well)!
Paisley Bunny aired on TV this week. I didn’t get the
news about an airdate until after Dad passed, so there wasn’t a chance to tell
him his daughter was making her national screenwriting debut. But he knew
it was in the works and again, he can see everything now, so he still knows, so
there are no tears of He Didn’t Live Long Enough To See His Daughter’s Work!
If anything, he'll probably be able to watch the whole thing without
falling asleep, as I imagine that nobody falls asleep during movies in heaven,
because nobody's tired in heaven, they're not bound to earthly bodily mechanics
or things like exhaustion or Ate Too Much At Lunch or Too Much Alcohol.
In my idea of heaven, you eat what you want, you drink what you want,
you're happy and you sleep when you want to. And perhaps most
importantly, you're never bored. For the right reasons, not because you're
stressed. There is no stress in heaven. Says me.
If you read the original Paisley Bunny post, you know the most important thing to me
about that script was the monologue that Bucky Bunny says toward the final
third of the movie. Because I wasn’t allowed to say “Jesus,” “God,” or
“Bible.” I wasn’t even allowed to show my rabbits hopping by a church in
the background.
(I also wasn’t allowed to say “poop” because on this
particular channel that the movie was airing on, you can show syndicated
episodes of crime shows where they kill people at the drop of a hat, but the
word “poop” is too scatological. WhatEVER.)
So Bucky Bunny says this monologue, and I knew they had at
least shot it, it was still in the script supervisor’s book:
BUCKY - Universe!
Okay, I was harsh about your book, and the opening doors and the closing doors,
and I’ve been mocking you this entire time even though my friends believe in
your book! There’s no reason you should help me! But I’m asking
anyway! Because I love Dew Drop Bunny. I love Dew Drop Bunny!
And love... that’s what you need, right, Universe? Love? Isn’t love
worth it? If you were ever going to help someone like me, it’d be for
love, wouldn’t it? Please? PLEASE?!
The question was, was the monologue going to remain intact?
Or was it going to end on the very real cutting room floor? Because
plenty of other things DID land on the cutting room floor. Ralphie
Rabbit, (Bucky 's rival for Dew Drop Bunny)’s whole backstory about how he had
gotten to Happy Dell, that was in the script, but didn't make it into the movie.
Plucky Duck's goal of decorating an underwater Christmas tree, did he
actually do it? Did he actually make it? Does the Christmas Tree
stay anchored underwater? Well, yes, in the script, it did, but in the
movie, just a loose end that's mentioned once and then never again.
So, future writers, when you're sitting in your seat at the
movie theater and you think to yourself "HEY! They never resolved
that dangling plot element! (like, say, the discarded crown on a rock in
Brave)" What you don't know is that they DID probably resolve that
element in the script, but it got cut from the final movie.
So cut out whatever you want to, did Bucky Bunny's monologue
that's actually code for talking to God, did it make it in? Or did
somebody finally figure it out and cut it?
So I watched the movie live when it aired, texting back and
forth with sister Agatha on the East Coast. And we cheered when we saw my
name WRITTEN BY AMY THE WRITER in the opening credits.
And what they did do in the movie which wasn't how I wrote
it, was fashion a bookend. You know what a bookend is, it's when the
movie starts with a scene where the characters are already in crisis, and then
the rest of the movie spools out in a kind of flashback, until you get to that
same scene in the pivotal third act, and then finish up the movie from there.
Executives and Producers often do this when they feel the movie isn't
starting in exciting enough of a manner to capture audience's interests.
It's a bit of a cliché at this point, which is why I didn't write it like
that.
But I'm not going to get upset about it, because the bookend
they use as Bucky Bunny and Peepers Rabbit are hopping through Happy Dell,
frantically looking for Dew Drop Bunny, and then there's this overhead shot
from a crane, and Bucky Bunny stares at the camera suspended above him and
says:
Universe! Okay, I was harsh about your book, and
the opening doors and the closing doors, and I’ve been mocking you this entire
time even though my friends believe in your book!
Not only did my secret God encoding monologue make it in,
it's almost the very first thing you see in the movie.
YAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY!!!!!!
And the rest of the movie unfolds, and the actor voicing
Plucky Duck rewrote all of my lines because he thinks he’s a writer, except his
jokes aren't better than mine, but it's okay, the actress voicing Dew Drop
Bunny said all of my lines exactly the way they were written, and I’d say about
75 – 80% percent of what I wrote made it into the final cut, which isn’t so bad
at all, and then we get to the final third of the movie, we’re caught up with
the scene that kicked off the movie, the rest of Bucky’s monologue.
There’s no reason you should help me! But I’m
asking anyway! Because I love Dew Drop Bunny. I love Dew Drop
Bunny! If you were ever
going to help anyone, help me please? PLEASE?!
Hilarious, huh?
The things they cut out of this coded monologue are not about the
Universe (God), are not about the Universe’s book (The Bible). They’re about love. They didn’t say this line:
And love... that’s what you need, right, Universe?
Love? Isn’t love worth it?
And as much as I am cynical about Hollywood and the way
things have gone lately, I don’t think The Powers That Be Over This Movie cut
out those lines because they’re about love. They most likely cut them out because they’re
redundant. Ducky already says he
loves Dew Drop Bunny. The rest is
implied.
I now have my first national screenwriting credit. And my Dad and my Father in heaven, are really quite pleased.
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
Dad
My first memory is riding on a bike with Dad. It was a yellow bike, later on, when my
sister and I were old enough to ride it, we called it the banana bike.
In my first memory, I’m about four, I think. Dad was pedaling, and I was in a kids’
seat behind him. I was laughing
and laughing at the feeling of being on a bike, of being in motion, feeling the
breeze on my face, and the neighborhood houses streaming by. I remember him continually turning
around to check on me, because my four-year-old laughter could sometimes sound
like screaming hysteria.
Dad was like that back then – continually befuddled by his
role as a father, even though it was something he absolutely wanted. He wanted us, but he wasn’t quite sure
what to do with us once we showed up, and left a lot to Mom. A classic story is him trying to dress
my older sister into some sleepsuit that had a zipper on it, and he got her
tummy pinched into the zipper. She
screamed bloody murder, Dad quickly gave her to Mom and never tried to dress
either of us ever again.
When I got The Call from Mom at the Zombie Run, while other
runners were screaming in the background as they were sliding down the water
slide, she told me that Dad, who had been in the hospital since Tuesday, was
not doing great, that it didn’t look good, and to “be prepared.”
Okay. Okay
fine. We knew this day was
coming. We knew it ever since the
Stage IV colon cancer diagnosis of last year. I sat on the ground and wiped tears from my eyes with a
towel I had brought to clean off the mud and water and zombie grime. If this is how it goes, then this is
how it goes. We had a year with
him, which is much more than we thought we would have last year. I thought we’d maybe have four months
last year.
So be prepared.
Okay. Okay, fine. I’m ready for action, I’m ready to book
flights, to fill out the Leave Of Absence forms at the Unnamed Movie
Studio. I just need someone to say
“Yes, go ahead.” Mom is saying Be
Prepared, but she’s not saying Come Home.
Dad’s supposed to be released on Tuesday, and we’ll know more after
that. But I am ready when she says
that.
I’m prepared.
But Tuesday comes, Dad goes home, I even talk to him on Thursday, and he
wants to see Argo, which he wants us to see together. So the plan is that I would book my ticket for next week,
and come home to spend time with him.
My sister Agatha is coming home too, so we’d be a family for a weekend
again.
That is our plan.
We book our tickets (the airline industry is a pit of unholy vipers for
charging more for last minute tickets and they will totally get theirs). We are prepared.
I am so prepared that when Mom calls the following Tuesday
to say that Dad’s back in the hospital, I don’t blink one bit. I don’t cry, I don’t panic. The tickets are already booked, and I’m
expecting that he’ll probably be released on Thursday when we get there, and
we’ll spend a very quiet weekend at home.
I call the producers of Violet Giraffe and Paisley Bunny to get rough
cuts of the movies so we’ve got something to watch. I am prepared.
So when Thursday comes, I meet up with Agatha at the airport
and we take a cab straight to the hospital. We figure out what room Dad’s in at the hospital, and take
our carry on suitcases to the fourth floor.
And once I walk into The Great Stoic Wonder’s room, things
become instantly clear.
This man is not leaving this room. This is the Final Spiral.
He’s incredibly thin, I think I weigh more than he
does. I think my carry on suitcase
weighs more than he does. His skin
is stretched tight over his skull.
How did he get this thin?
How did this happen? I last
saw him in June, he was walking, and talking and watching Jurassic Park on the
condo TV in the Bahamas. He was
fine. I talked to him on the phone
less than a week ago, we were going to see Argo in the theater. Now it’s an effort for him to
speak.
But he talks. “I’m so happy you’re here,” he says,
smiling. We hug him and sit by his
bedside. We chat for a little
while, I show him pictures on my laptop about the Zombie Race, though I don’t
blame him if he doesn’t get it.
The oncologist comes by later to examine him and to consult
with us, “He’s terminal. It’s a
matter of days.” She says outside
his hospital room (not unkindly, she’s actually very compassionate). He’s in a lot of pain and we can choose
to switch him from morphine to Dilaudid, which will stop the pain, but also put
him under until he slips away. But
if the choice is between him being conscious and in pain, or sleeping and not
in pain, everyone agrees on the second one. That’s what Dad tells the oncologist when she examines him,
that’s what we tell the oncologist when she’s talking to us.
So we file back into the room, and Mom sits by Dad’s bed,
“So, you’re not feeling great,” she says.
And then we all start crying.
We’re making this decision as a family, and I know this is more than
what a lot of families get. But my
God, it hurts.
We take turns hugging him and telling him we love him and
take turns wiping the tears from his face. And he tells us he loves us and he’s ready, by GOD he’s
ready for some new meds. If he had
his way, he’d take a rocket launcher of Dilaudid to zoom him off this earth,
that’s how ready he is.
It doesn’t happen that fast, however. The Dilaudid arrives after an hour or
so, and they start him off with 1 mg/hour. When we get there the next day, he’s conscious, but still in
pain, and not talking a lot. They
increase the dosage by .5 mg. every six hours or so, and I think it was around
2 mg/hour when he started sleeping and stopped talking.
The next few days are a numbing blur of sameness. We wake up, we go to the hospital. We sit by his bed and read stories from
the paper and what I can find on the internet to him, even though he’s not
awake. We hold his hand, we smooth
his hair. We ask Mom questions
about how they met, their initial courtship, when she knew she was in love with
him. Questions that she might not
have answered in such degree had Dad been awake. But now she’s a fountain of details – he proposed in the
car, without a ring, so that they could go pick one out together. The car was named Bessie, she named it
(so I’m not the only one who names my cars). She went to his parents’ place in Pittsburgh for
Thanksgiving, but his parents mailed her parents a handwritten invitation so
they knew she was invited, and that Mom and Dad weren’t running off together.
Nurses keep bringing food trays that nobody eats (and I
can’t imagine how good pureed waffle would taste anyway). Other nurses keep asking us if we need
anything, keep letting us know when there’s a fresh pot of coffee made, as
though this was a hotel.
I’m sure Dad would agree that those last few days weren’t
necessary. And I often felt like
God was not in those days, that He had taken a backseat to pure biology, as the
hours kept adding on, adding on, marked by nothing more than Dad’s breaths, his
chest rising and falling as we all waited and waited and waited.
The past thirteen months have been marked by no less than
five deaths of my dogsitting clients: Ginger Puppy, Pembleton, Basil Diva Dog,
Hickory, and most recently Babs the cocker spaniel are gone. (Before you say that I’m some Angel of
Dog Death, know that four of them passed from old age.)
And when I was there taking care of those elderly dogs, I
would continually watch them sleep, and sometimes stretch a hand out to touch
their side, to make sure they were breathing, that they didn’t suddenly go, and
I hadn’t seen it. And the breaths
would keep coming, sometimes with a longer space in between than I would like,
and I’d freak out, and wake the dog client up, and the dog client would look at
me all bewildered, huh?
What? What happened?
I have had quite enough of death for awhile.
Dad passed on Election Day morning, so he was spared the
endless exit polling reports. He
never got to see the rough cuts of Violet Giraffe and Paisley Bunny, though I’m
sure he can see them now (he believed in God and Jesus, so the basics were
covered.) We stood by Mom as she
appeared to shrink more and more into her coat and red head scarf, as we
shepherded her through the paperwork at the hospital, at the funeral home, at
the cemetery, as the cards, and calls and food started coming in, as the parade
of kind-hearted Southern people with thick Southern accents started up, “I’m so
sawwwwwwrrrreeee for your lawsssssss.”
The trees in Alabama are showing off their glorious fall
colors, and on Saturday, I decided I was going on a bike ride. Dad had bought a bike a few months ago,
as he was getting agitated that he wasn’t getting enough exercise.
One of my favorite pictures of Dad is on a bike, ironically enough, back during the Disney cruise of 2009. He wanted to go ride a bike, which was unusual for him, but I was game and we both rode bikes all around Disney's Castaway Key island, and I took this picture of him one handed AND steering my bike.
The bike that's in the garage now is a red bike.
The tires could use some air, but Mom and I couldn’t figure out how to
use the compressor to fill them up (Dad would’ve just shook his head in
dismay), so I did without.
And Mom watched me in her coat and red head scarf as I
pedaled down the driveway and down the street. Passing by the same houses that I did when I was four and
Dad was driving. Some of the
people have moved, some of the houses have new additions on them, but they all
basically look the same as they always did.
I was talking on the phone with Miss Eunice the day that Dad
passed, and as I’m babbling about Dad and how I don’t understand those useless last
few days we had to go through to get to the end, she says, somewhere in the
middle of it, “I have a quote for you.”
And it’s this quote that I keep thinking about, as I pedal down the street of my first memory, looking at the fall leaves, seeing my Dad in front of me on the bike, continually looking back at me, making sure I’m okay.
O,
wonder!
How many goodly creatures
are there here!
How beauteous
mankind is! O brave new world,
That has such people in't!
O, wonder, o, wonder, o, wonder. O Brave New World and O, Wonder.
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I’m going to be taking a few weeks off from the blog. I will try to come back at the
beginning of December. Here’s
hoping.
Tuesday, November 06, 2012
The Call
So! There we
were, at the zombie race (see last week’s post.) The last stretch of the 5K involved walls to climb over,
lumber things to crawl through, barbed wire thingies to scrabble under, and a
wooden slide thing to climb up and slide down on the other side. You plunged into a very
very cold pool of muddy water, and you climbed out of that, did some more
obstacles, dodge more zombies, and eventually staggered to the end.
We did all that, and then we went to the lake to rinse
off. Then we changed out of the
wet gross clothes, into the dry clothes.
Got something to drink, got something to eat. Met up with friends, exchanged war stories. Laughed a lot.
And then we wanted to shift into a role as spectators. So we headed over to the slide thing,
to cheer the other runners as they were staggering through.
And it was there, cheering on a group of very beautiful
muddy Disney Cruise line employees in red tank tops, that my cell rang in my
back pocket.
It was my mother.
My father was in the hospital.
And as the screams of the other runners continued to ring
out in the background as they continued to go down the slide, continued to hit
the water, my mother explained that things were… not great.
No, they were not great at all.
And now they are over.
(Continued next week)
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Give Me Your Hand, I'm Right In Front Of You
At the beginning of this year, I set some goals for myself,
some small (take a picture of myself doing aerial stuff and make it my profile
pic on facebook) some that seemed so big that I didn’t really seriously work
toward completing it until I kind stumbled into it (getting a new car).
And one goal was so simple and so vague that I kinda laughed
when I set it, thinking I wouldn’t really take it seriously until it was like,
December 27th, and I’d be all SHIT! I gotta knock that one off my list in three days!
The goal was this – DO SOMETHING YOU’VE NEVER DONE BEFORE
THAT SCARES YOU.
As it turns out, that goal turned out to be a 5K. Which isn’t really anything awful or
traumatic like a marathon, or a half marathon, or even a 10K. It’s 3.1 miles. It’s nothing. Nothing at all, really. It shouldn’t scare anyone.
But I hate running.
The thought of a 5K race DID scare me. So I had to do it.
I’ve talked about how much I hate running long distance
before. I hate it SO MUCH that
there better be a damn good reason for why I would spend money to enter a 5K
race.
And yes, there was.
And that reason was zombies.
The race was Run For Your Lives, and the concept is simple –
you run a 5K course filled with 12 obstacles, with three flags tied around your
waist. And there are zombies on
the course that try to pull your flags.
If you cross the finish line with one flag left, you’re “alive,” if you
cross the finish line with no flags left, you’re “dead.”
Here’s the official promo video:
Now I hate running, but I fully recognized that I would have
to run to train for this thing.
For the month of September, I was dogsitting Pepe and Pablo, and was
running with them, but them pulling you is kinda cheating, and I’m not going to
have them on the course on game day.
So for the three weeks of October I kept running up and down
Los Feliz Blvd., trying to increase the distance each time, trying to get my
endurance up. I would alternate
between walking, jogging, and sprinting, because I had heard other reports from
other racers earlier in the year that said you could walk the course, and
sprint past the zombies.
I downloaded this awesome ap Zombies, Run! It helped SO MUCH. Seriously, if you hate running as much
as I do, this ap takes your mind off running by giving you a new identity as
Runner Five, and plunking you down in the midst of an audio story about a
zombie apocalypse. It is so much
fun that I’m still listening to it while back on the ellipticals at the gym.
I was fully prepared to do Run For Your Lives by myself, but
luckily I have like minded friends and a group of about 10 of us went down to
Temecula to run the race.
And it was there that I gradually became aware that I may
have been the only one training for the event. Everyone else was pretty loosey goosey about it. What!? Come on! I’ve
been training for a long time!
I’ve been running up and down Los Feliz Blvd.! I hate running!
What’s wrong with you people!
So on Game Day, here we all are. Ready to get dirty (literally, the race in Temecula is at
Vail Lake Resort, the trails are dusty, when they’re not watering it down with
mud), ready to scream, ready to run, ready to block for others if we die first.
But I don’t think any of us were ready for the freakin’ HILL
that greeted us instantly when we were let out of the pen.
Oooookay, so we’re NOT running up this hill. It’s a great Kate Bush song, but we’re
not doing it in real life.
While we’re hiking up this hill, we notice at the top
occasional dirt clouds. This
indicates where the zombies are waiting for runners, and where the runners are
sprinting to get away from them.
Because it’s not enough that there’s a gigantic hill to start the race,
there has to be ZOMBIES at the top of the hill. Great.
On the whole, it was an awesome, excellent time. You made instant friends with fellow
runners as it became obvious that there was Safety In Numbers. Meaning if you tried to get past a
zombie one on one, you were gonna lose a flag. If you waited until there was 15 of you, and you all charged
at the same time, you had a much better chance of getting through.
Yes, we got dirty.
Yes, I even got shocked on the top of my head under the electric fence
(drove my skull down into the dirt, my jaw clicked. NOT a good time)
I sprinted, I screamed, I gasped for breath. I did something I had never done before
that scared me (a 5K race, not zombies)
But perhaps what was most profound about the whole thing
(and believe you me, I was NOT expecting profound) was the mud pits.
There was about three or four of them, mud hills and giant
mud puddles in between You had to
slog through the mud puddles (which were waist high) and clamber up the mud
hills, three or four of them in a row.
You couldn’t stop in the mud puddle to marvel at how gross
it was, because you’d start to sink.
You had to keep going, and scrabble scrabble up the mud hill, which was,
well, muddy, and more than a few people would start up, and slide back down.
I was crawling up the mud hill, wishing that someone at the
top was there to lend a hand.
There wasn’t anyone (I had gotten separated from most of my group at
this point).
But once I got to the top of the hill, I decided that I was
gonna BE the thing I wished was there for me. Instead of grumbling about it.
So I turned around and, bracing myself at the top of the
hill, started pulling people up. I
didn’t know them, they didn’t know me. It didn’t matter. They had hands, I had the stable ground.
“Give me your hand,” I said over and over again, “Give me
your hand, I’m right in front of you.”
They weren’t looking because they didn’t know me. Help was right in front of them, and
all they had to do was look up.
“Look up. Look
up! I’m right in front of you!”
Finally, most of them did. They grabbed my hand and I pulled them up. And I kept pulling people up. Some of them would actually stagger
around to my other arm, and provide even more ballast so we as a human chain
could get to the bigger guys.
Sure, it ate up a ton of time. I ended up finishing the 5K in an hour and a half (still the
first out of my group of friends).
But it was totally worth it.
And I survived with a lone single red flag. That I’m totally taking with me for
next years’ race. Wait and see, ha ha ha.
But this video makes me laugh and laugh. This wasn’t the Temecula race, this
intrepid Panda was running in Baltimore’s race. He is awesome.
More awesome than me.
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Weird Stuff In The Bible #6 - David and the 200 foreskins (gross!)
Hey!
We're back in the OT, back in the coo coo crazy world o' Saul, he who
hired the witch of Endor to consult ghost Samuel back in Weird Stuff #1!
This story came BEFORE the dealings with the witch. I probably
should've gone in chronological order, huh. Ah well.
WHO
ARE THE PLAYERS IN THIS WEIRD TALE?
Saul,
David, Saul's daughters Merab and Michel, and 200 Philistines, who are about to
become, gulp, unexpectedly circumcised.
WHERE
IS THIS IN THE BIBLE?
1
Samuel 18:25-30
WHAT'S
THE BACKSTORY?
Okay,
in the broadest strokes possible, so we can get to the weird stuff quickly:
Samuel
is a prophet, and he's a pretty good one, leading the Israelites.
Samuel
gets old and his sons aren't fit to take over as leader of the Israelites, so
the nation Israel asks Samuel to ask God to give them a King.
God
cosmically shrugs His shoulders (can't you trust ME?) and gives them Saul the
warrior, who while a good warrior, turns out to be a pretty lousy dude (Be
careful what you ask for, Israelites), does a lot of things that displeases God, who rejects Saul as King. (Saul's son Jonathan is a
decent guy, though.)
Once
God's presence (Holy Spirit, perhaps) leaves Saul, a demon (evil spirit) comes
to dance on Saul's head and make him miserable.
God tells
Samuel to go visit Jesse of Bethlehem, God will show Samuel who He's picked as
the new king. Turns out to be David, who can play a
mean harp, utilize a mean slingshot, and kill Goliath, meanest, biggest guy of the
Philistines.
Now
David grows up and hangs in Saul's court, leads his troops in battle, becomes
besties with Saul's son Jonathan (and perhaps more than besties, depending on
your interpretation). All the Israelites LURVE David, and the evil
spirits Paranoia and Jealousy who are tangoing in Saul's brain get Saul all
riled up.
AND
NOW OUR STORY BEGINS!
Saul
wants David gone, but he can't kill David himself, since the Israelites LURVE
David, and would hate anyone who killed him. So Saul figures he'll send
David out into the heat of battle against their local enemy the Philistines,
and let David get killed in battle by them. So Saul tells David he'll
give his daughter Merab in marriage to David if he'll lead a specific campaign
against the Philistines and come back successful. (Saul had actually already
promised Merab to the one man who killed Goliath (1 Samuel 17:25), but one you
hit chapter 18, nobody’s remembering that.)
David
either 1) sees through Saul's plan. 2) isn't a big fan of Merab or 3) is
really THAT humble enough to say in response "I'm not worthy enough to be
your son-in-law.” So Merab is given to someone else and tries to bolster
her self-esteem at being passed over by the hometown hero.
Meanwhile,
Saul's OTHER daughter, Michel, has a huge crush on David, and Saul sees
opportunity number two to get rid of David in a Philistine battle. So he
has his advisors talk to David and they try to persuade David that being Saul's
son-in-law is an awesome thing, despite being the exact same set-up as last
time, only with a different daughter.
David
starts off saying the second verse of the Humble Pie song, “Do you think it is
a small matter to become the king’s son-in-law? I’m only a poor man and little known“ (1 Samuel 18:23). Never mind the fact that David kinda IS
well known, he did slay Goliath, and just 16 verses ago, when Saul and David
were coming back to town after David killed Goliath, the women of the city
danced and sang, “Saul has slain his thousands, and David his tens of
thousands.” (1 Samuel 18:7)
Yet if
David rightly thinks this is a trap by Saul to kill David in battle, it
apparently doesn’t bother him the second time around, and he accepts the
“price” for marrying Michel which is to go to battle against the Philistines
and bring back 100 Philistine foreskins.
Back in
OT times, it was acceptable to cut souvenirs from the people you killed, so
everyone would know what a barbarian, SORRY what an alleged bad-ass you
were. So people would take heads,
scalps, hands, if you’re Daryl Dixon in The Walking Dead, you take ears and
wear them on a necklace around your neck, la la laaaaaaaaaaa.
So Saul
is saying, in effect, that if you wanna marry my daughter with the weird
misspelled boy’s name Michel, you gotta kill 100 Philistines and bring me back
proof. Hoping hoping hoping that
David dies while trying to complete the task.
Yet David
is an overachiever, or perhaps really obsessed with male genitalia (see those
theories about him and Jonathan) because not only does David survive the
battle, but he brings back 200 foreskins.
Which is
totally gross.
So Saul’s
forced to give Michel to David to marry.
Despite Michel’s ginormous crush on David, Saul still hates David and
plots to kill him.
So David
leaves Michel, goes on the run, takes two more women to be his wife while on
the run, after seven years goes back to Michel so he can be King (she’s not
impressed with him anymore).
David
gets to be King, runs into Bathsheba, and borrows SAUL’S EXACT SAME PLAN to
Kill The Ones You Hate By Sending Them Into Battle (i.e. Uriah, Bathsheba’s
husband.) Luckily, Uriah doesn’t have to bring back any foreskins. I guess David had enough left over from
his days o’ war.
Weird,
huh?
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Weird Stuff In The Bible #5 – Jesus, Demons, and Pigs, Oh My!
Why doesn’t the Bible like pigs? They are entertaining!
Does God not like Porky Pig? How could anyone hate on Wilbur from
Charlotte's Web? Miss Piggy is awesome! They taste good!
Has nobody in the Bible experienced the wonders of bacon? Pigs in
a blanket are soooooo yummy!
What's the deal? Why no love for the oink oink in the
Bible?
The first dietary laws were handed down in everyone's
not-favorite starchy book of the Bible Leviticus. Specifically chapter
11. There's other animals that the Israelites are not allowed to eat
besides pigs (camels, rabbits, birds that ate flesh, not grain, reptiles and
insects, so put that locust down!). There's a bunch of different theories
as to why (hygienic reasons because even in the Bible, people could see what
those pigs were rooting around in, additionally, pigs were used in pagan
rituals), but probably the sanest theory is that God set down these rules to
distinguish his people (the Israelites) as distinct and different than other
people.
And pigs figure prominently in today’s weird story.
WHO ARE THE PLAYERS IN THIS WEIRD TALE?
Jesus, his disciples, a demon-possessed man, and a herd of
pigs who unfortunately don't know what's coming.
WHERE IS THIS IN THE BIBLE?
Mark 5: 1-20 (it's also mentioned in Matthew 8:28-34 and
Luke 8:26-37, though Matthew says there's two demon-possessed men, not one.
But in all accounts, there's demons, there's pigs, and there's a cliff.
This doesn't end well for the pigs in any book.)
WHAT'S THE BACKSTORY?
Right before this happened, in Mark 4, Jesus taught a large
crowd a bunch of parables about farmers sowing seed, lampstands, growing seeds,
mustard seeds, and later that night, Jesus calmed a storm that was threatening
to swamp the boat that he and his disciples were in as they were trying to
cross a lake.
AND NOW OUR STORY BEGINS!
Jesus and the disciples make it to the shore of Gerasenes
after Jesus calms the storm. When
they get out of the boat, they’re greeted by the Gerasenes welcoming committee,
NO, it’s a demon-possessed man who lives in the cemetery, which apparently is
the only place he could exist without hurting other people. Now he lives among the tombs, hurting
himself, and busting any chains or irons that they try to bind him with, and
basically existing as his own 24/7 Halloween Horror Show.
He sees Jesus coming, and runs down to say hi, NO, he
doesn’t, he runs down and the demons possessing him engage Jesus in a
conversation that quickly turns into a bargaining session.
Interesting facts to note here:
- There’s
more than one demon in this guy.
There’s Legion, meaning “many,” not the awful Paul Bettany movie from 2009, one of the few movies I’ve
seen that I don’t remember one thing about after I saw it, that’s how
forgettable it was.
- The
Legion of demons (Let’s just call them the Legion of Doom, mmmkay?) call
Jesus The Son Of The Most High God.
It’s actually the first time that Jesus is called the Son Of God
publicly (as opposed to when Satan tempts Jesus in the desert, and it’s
just those two by themselves).
Irony, right? Jesus’
enemy acknowledges who he is, and the people Jesus is walking among don’t
get it.
- This is the only place in the New Testament where Jesus has a conversation with demons. There are other places where Jesus talks to demons and says, “Come out of (that person).” But this is only place where there’s verbal give and take.
So Jesus is about to cast out the Legion of Doom Demons, but
they don’t wanna go “out of the country” (in Matthew’s retelling, the demons
don’t want to go into “the abyss”), and they beg Jesus to send them into a
nearby herd of grazing pigs.
WHY DO THE DEMONS BEG TO BE PUT IN THE PIGS?
Well, they know they're getting kicked out of the
demon-possessed guy. They know they can't stop Jesus from casting them
out. Jesus is the Son of God, and has power over them. And they're
not gonna get anywhere with Jesus if they ask to be cast into, say, the disciples,
that's a no-go.
With no clue from the Bible in any of the retellings to
guide us, my personal theory is that the demons thought they could outsmart
Jesus. That the Legion Of Doom
demons were planning on starting a Pig Uprising, that as soon as they got
control of the pigs, they’d turn around and charge Jesus, the disciples, and
it’d be Death By Bacon all over the place.
But the joke’s on the demons (either because demons and/or
pigs are… well… not smart), as once Jesus casts the Legion Of Doom Demons out
of the guy(s), they enter the pigs, who immediately go crazy because there’s
demons in them, and all the pigs charge down the cliff and drowned themselves
in the lake.
Now the pigkeepers, who are suddenly don’t have a herd of
pigs, and have just incurred a staggering loss of income, run back to town to
tell everyone what just happened to Halloween Horror Show and all their
pigs. Everyone in town comes out
to see that Halloween Horror Show is in fact, now a perfectly normal
not-demon-possessed man, and there’s a bunch of pig carcasses bobbing in the
lake.
The townspeople then beg Jesus to leave, as they’re scared
of a man who can cast out demons, send them into pigs, and ruin a large source
of income for their citizens (though Jesus didn’t tell the pigs to kill themselves,
they did that on their own.)
And thus appears the REAL reason for the story’s inclusion
in the Bible, the theme that usually any pastor who draws the short straw and
has to preach on this story will tell you – pay no attention to demons bargaining
with Jesus (though that’s what I found most interesting), pay no attention to
the fact that a whole town has lost their bacon supply, what you’re SUPPOSED to
be paying attention to is the fact that when confronted with Jesus and the
power he has, you have your choice of reactions:
- Damn
you, Jesus, get out of my town, you ruined these pigkeepers’ lifestyle,
and now they’re broke – you’re worried about financial concerns, money,
etc.
- Damn
you, Jesus, you scare the hell out of me, and I’m worried you’ll do
something awful to me – you’re worried about yourself.
- Damn
you, Jesus, those pigs didn’t do anything to you! – you’re worried about
moral issues.
- Wow, Jesus, you saved that poor Halloween Horror Show from a life of being tormented by demons. That’s pretty awesome and amazing. Who are you, that you can do that? The Son Of God? Do I believe that?
Ultimately, Jesus, and who he is and what he can do/what he
did, requires a response from us all individually.
Jesus, incidentally, loved bacon. Because
he says in Mark 7:14 - 19 that nothing outside a man
(bacon-wrapped shrimp) can make him "unclean" by going into him
(chowing down on said bacon-wrapped shrimp). " Ratherm it is what comes
out of a man that makes him "unclean." (V15) and although
the fifth grader in us all might directly go for the gutter jokes on that, what
Jesus really is talking about is to pay less attention about kosher and
non-kosher foods, and more about your character, your conduct, and are you
loving God with all your heart, and are you loving your neighbor as yourself?
And actually, Jesus said that AFTER the demons drove the
pigs off the cliff. So maybe Jesus felt slightly guilty? Maybe? Or he just REALLY wanted applewood-smoked bacon. That stuff is the bomb.
Tuesday, October 09, 2012
Weird Stuff In The Bible #4 – Jesus Doesn't Like Goats
Okay, maybe they're not bad. But when Jesus needed to
make a point, guess who was the scape-er-goat?
WHO ARE THE PLAYERS IN THIS WEIRD TALE?
Jesus and his disciples. And a bunch of metaphors!
WHERE IS THIS IN THE BIBLE?
Matthew 25: 31-46
WHAT'S THE BACKSTORY?
The disciples have asked Jesus when will the End of
the Age come, and what will the sign of Jesus' return be. (You would think that
Jesus reappearing would be sign enough, but the disciples, as most of us today,
are not that bright.)
Jesus has replied, in his lovable Jesus way, not by directly
answering the question (because that would be too easy) but by telling them a
series of stories. First, he talks about what will probably happen during
that time - people claiming to be him who aren't, wars, famines,
earthquakes, etc., and nope, I'm not gonna give you a day or hour, because you
should be prepared and live every single day of your life as if it was your
last - not in a drunken orgy kind of way, but in a Daddy Jesus Is Coming, I'm
Gonna Be GOOD and I'm so EXCITED to see him again kind of way.
Jesus then talks about the parable of the ten virgins
(always be ready for Jesus' return, and skip over the part where one husband
has ten bridesmaids waiting for him), and the parable of the talents (If you're
not going to do anything with your money, at least put it in a bank where it'll
earn interest.)
AND NOW OUR STORY BEGINS!
Well, let's just go right to the source, shall we?
Matthew 25:31-46
31"But when the Son of Man comes in his glory, and
all the holy angels with him, then he will sit on the throne of his
glory. 32Before him all the nations will be gathered, and he will separate
them one from another, as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33He
will set the sheep on his right hand, but the goats on the left. 34Then
the King will tell those on his right hand, 'Come, blessed of my Father,
inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world; 35for
I was hungry, and you gave me food to eat. I was thirsty, and you gave me
drink. I was a stranger, and you took me in. 36I was naked, and you
clothed me. I was sick, and you visited me. I was in prison, and you came to
me.'
37"Then the righteous will answer him, saying, 'Lord,
when did we see you hungry, and feed you; or thirsty, and give you a
drink? 38When did we see you as a stranger, and take you in; or naked, and
clothe you? 39When did we see you sick, or in prison, and come to you?'
40"The King will answer them, 'Most certainly I tell
you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did
it to me.' 41Then he will say also to those on the left hand, 'Depart from
me, you cursed, into the eternal fire which is prepared for the devil and his
angels; 42for I was hungry, and you didn't give me food to eat; I was
thirsty, and you gave me no drink; 43I was a stranger, and you didn't take
me in; naked, and you didn't clothe me; sick, and in prison, and you didn't
visit me.'
44"Then they will also answer, saying, 'Lord, when
did we see you hungry, or thirsty, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in
prison, and didn't help you?'
45"Then he will answer them, saying, 'Most certainly
I tell you, inasmuch as you didn't do it to one of the least of these, you
didn't do it to me.' 46These will go away into eternal punishment, but the
righteous into eternal life."
In short, Jesus here is separating sheep (good righteous
Christians who lived righteously and took care of those less fortunate than
them) from goats (people, possibly Christians, depending on your
interpretation, who didn't live righteously and didn't take care of anybody.)
But why use a goat as a metaphor? What does Jesus have
against goats? Why couldn't he have used another metaphor, like
separating recycling from regular garbage, or the one bad carrot in the bag of
baby carrots, or brown M&Ms out of the big bag of other color M&Ms?
It's not like goats were inherently bad - people in the Bible ate both,
and sacrificed both on altars all through the Old Testament, so why make a
scapegoat out of a goat, huh?
I mean, if you do research, you quickly learn that
sheep eat everything close to the ground, so if you let sheep go first, they'll
eat everything and leave nothing for goats. Sheep are more adept to stay
in a group (and thus be easily herded by any Biblical shepherd), while goats
are natural explorers and wanderers, stubborn, obstinate and don't group so
well. If you wanted to be a spoilsport, you could easily point out that
God/Jesus like sheep better because they're dumber, and easily to manipulate,
where goats are independent thinkers so into the eternal fire with YOU!
BUT! Goats have been mentioned in the Bible as an
example of leadership in leading flocks. Check out Jeremiah 50: 6 - 8
"“My people have been lost sheep; their shepherds have led them
astray and caused them to roam on the mountains. They wandered
over mountain and hill and forgot their own resting place. Whoever
found them devoured them; their enemies said, ‘We are not
guilty, for they sinned against the Lord, their true pasture the Lord, the
hope of their fathers.’ “Flee out of Babylon; leave
the land of the Babylonians, and be like the goats that lead the
flock."
So you can't necessarily condemn an entire species just
because Jesus put 'em on the left. I mean, THAT'S a whole other entry,
how the right side is considered more valuable/important than the left side.
I'm not touching that one, no thank you.
I think Cake has done a lot of thinking about this as well. Check it out:
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